How Friend Matchmaking Works

What is setem?

setem is an app that lets you play matchmaker for your single friends. With your friend’s permission, you create their profile, search for someone who could be right for them, and make the introduction. It turns your instinct as a matchmaker into a real way to help your single friends meet.

Can I make my own profile?

Yes. setem is built first for people who want to find matches for their friends, but you can manage your own profile too. If you do, you can invite someone you trust to add a review and story so potential matches get the perspective of a person who actually knows you.

What is a friend review?

It is a written, personal introduction from someone who knows the person well: their green flags, personality, and even their awkward texting habits. It is not a numerical rating, identity verification, or background check. Reviews should be truthful, respectful, and based on real experience.

Who controls a profile?

Each profile is either self-managed or friend-managed. The account holder managing a profile can edit its details and, depending on the available features, act for that profile in discovery, matching, and conversations. A self-managed user can invite a friend to submit a vouch and approve it before publication. A friend-managed profile must be created only with the profiled person’s knowledge and permission.

What can I do as the matchmaker?

You can do more than write an introduction. When you manage a friend’s profile, you may help present them, review nearby profiles, make matching decisions, and move a promising match toward a real introduction. People using setem should understand that activity on a friend-managed profile may come from its manager rather than directly from the person shown.

How do I find local matches for my friend?

Choose the city or area where your friend wants to date. setem uses that selected dating location to show compatible people nearby, so you can matchmake for a friend even when you live somewhere else. The app stores the selected place and its coordinates to calculate nearby results. It does not currently require continuous background location tracking. Profiles managed by the same setem account are excluded from one another.

Does setem perform background checks?

No. A friend review adds personal context, but it is not identity verification, a background check, or a guarantee of someone’s conduct. Use good judgment, protect personal information, and meet in a public place.

How do I report a problem?

Email support@wishe.app with your account email and a clear description. Do not send your password or other highly sensitive information.

How do I delete my account?

In the app, open Settings, tap Delete Account Permanently, and confirm. This deletes your account without requiring you to contact support. If you no longer have access to the app, see our account deletion page for help.