Bring a friend
With their permission, create the profile that shows why they’re such a catch.
SETEM ON WEB AND MOBILE
Play matchmaker for your single friends.
Sign in to manage the people you are helping, discover thoughtful profiles, and keep every setup conversation moving.
Opening your account...
You already know someone great. With their permission, setem gives you a place to create their profile, find someone who could be right for them, and make the introduction.
See how it works →A FRIEND KNOWS THE STORY
More context. Less guessing.
The people who know us best can often see the connection before we do. setem gives those friends a thoughtful way to make it happen.
Why setem works differently✦THE MATCHMAKER’S NOTE01/9
“You know who deserves a great match. Go find them one.”
HOW YOU MAKE THE MATCH
You bring the instinct. setem gives you the way.
Find their person
Explore people being introduced by friends who know them just as well.
Make it happen
Start the match, make the introduction, and help turn your hunch into a date.
LOCAL MATCHMAKING
Find nearby matches for the friend you know best.
Choose the city or area where your friend wants to date. setem helps you explore compatible people near them, even when you live somewhere else. You bring the personal knowledge. Local discovery helps you find someone they could realistically meet.
Learn how local discovery worksREADY WHEN YOU ARE
Everything you need to make the introduction.
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About setem
Why setem puts trusted friends at the center of a more thoughtful introduction.
Open page →02Frequently asked questions
Quick answers about setting up a friend, matching, introductions, and safety.
Open page →03Privacy policy
What setem collects, why we use it, and the choices you have.
Open page →04Terms of service
The rules that keep setem useful, honest, and respectful.
Open page →05Support
Get help with your account, profile, verification, or experience.
Open page →06Delete your account
Request deletion of your setem account and associated personal data.
Open page →MATCHMAKER GUIDES
Make a thoughtful introduction, not an awkward surprise.
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How to set up two single friends
Start with compatibility, ask permission, make a simple introduction, and know when to step back.
Read guide →02How to help your friend find a date
Support a single friend without overriding their preferences, privacy, or boundaries.
Read guide →03What is friend-assisted dating?
See how a trusted friend can add context to profiles, discovery, and introductions.
Read guide →